LIBERATE YOUR ADOPTEE EMOTIONS
A virtual Group Journey to INNER BELONGING
For BIPOC and TRA Only!
Hey there precious you!
Do you feel:
~ UNSEEN in your adoptee self?
~ UNSURE how to deal with difficult emotions like grief, anger, and shame?
~ INSECURE about your cultural identity?
~ FEARFUL of rejection and not being good enough?
What if you could:
~ Feel SEEN and SELF-ASSURED in your identity?
~ Be CLEAR in how to process difficult feelings?
~ CONFIDENTLY express who you are?
~ Restore INNER PEACE and discover TRUE BELONGING within?
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Life-changing results
FROM STUCK TO CLEAR
"Coming out of it, I feel much more clear in who I am and where I’m going in life. I’m prepared to live in alignment with my true values, making choices in my life, relationships, career, and day-to-day that I know are right for me.“
FROM INSECURE TO CONFIDENT
"This group journey has helped me create a safe space within myself. Now, I can harness my inner power and knowing and translate and manifest what I want for myself in this life."
I see you and feel you!
As a Korean-German adoptee, adopted at 3.5 years old from Pusan and raised in Germany, I know what it feels like to grow up with a deep sense of disconnection — from your body, your emotions, your roots, and sometimes even from yourself. I know what it’s like to live between identities and to wonder where you truly belong.
For much of my life, I learned to stay safe by adapting. I pusjed my emotions, feared rejection, and became highly attuned to what others needed from me. I shaped myself around expectations, stayed in my head, and tried to be “good” — all while carrying the unspoken grief of separation and the pain of being too much and not enough at the same time.
For years, I tried to heal through understanding alone. I read, reflected, journaled, and did deep inner work. Therapy helped me make sense of my experiences, but I still felt stuck in survival patterns that lived beyond words. The real shift came when I began to include my body in the healing process — through somatic work, mindfulness, creative expression, spiritual practice, and connection with other adoptees.
That journey changed everything. I found more peace, more clarity, and a deeper capacity to belong within myself and with others. I also found the courage to build a life, motherhood, and purpose-led business on my own terms. I stopped living only from adapting and started living from my truth.
This is why I created this work. Because I know how powerful it is when adoptees are given a space to heal that goes beyond talking — a space where the body, grief, identity, and community are all welcome. And in a moment, I’ll show you what that path can look like for you, too.
Imagine that you feel …
✔︎ Safe and understood in your transracial adoptee experience
✔︎ Supported and empowered to belong within
✔︎ At peace with your feelings and inner world
✔︎ Deeply connected with yourself and others
✔︎ Confident and joyful in your adoptee life
✔︎ Fully self-expressed and WHOLE.
8 Weeks to reclaim your Wholeness
A step-by-step guided group journey to overcome the fear of your feelings and confidently belong on your terms!
What you'll learn and explore:
- Identify your core adoptee survival patterns — and begin shifting them through the NUMARU C.A.R.E framework
- Move through emotions like grief and shame with radical softness, and a gentle step-by-step process that overcomes fear and prevents overwhelm
- Learn 30+ somatic tools to calm your triggers and regulate your nervous system in under 5 minutes a day
- Heal in community with fellow BIPOC adoptees who understand the layered experience of adoption, race, identity, and belonging
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Uncover the values that help you feel more whole and live more fully on your own terms
Curious about all Course Modules?
In this opening 1:1 session, we’ll clarify your intentions and explore what support will help you feel most safe, seen, and resourced in this journey. Together, we’ll create a strong foundation for how you want to begin.
In this opening session, you’ll meet the other adoptees in the cohort and begin to feel the power of shared experience. Together, we’ll create safety, presence, and connection in the group, while exploring what it means to live in the in-between as an adoptee.
Discover what your body, mind, heart, and spirit have truly been asking for. In this module, you’ll learn to understand your nervous system, notice your triggers, and use somatic and mindful tools to regulate, resource, and care for yourself with more compassion.
Uncover the deeper patterns behind resistance, people-pleasing, and limiting adoptee beliefs. You’ll be guided through a safe process to release stuck energy and create more space for the life, truth, and way of being you want to welcome in.
Learn the difference between emotions, feelings, and sensations—and begin to understand the wisdom within your adoptee emotions. This module will help you relate to your inner world with more clarity, compassion, and trust.
What if grief needed witnessing more than fixing? In this module, you’ll learn to meet your losses with care and compassion, create a personal grief ritual, and experience how grief and joy can move together in the rhythm of life.
Shame begins to loosen when it is brought into the light. In this module, you’ll give space to the insecurities around your adoptee identity, reconnect with your values, and grow more anchored in the truth of who you are.
What makes you feel whole and seen?
Explore the future version of yourself that feels more whole, seen, and true. You’ll clarify what parts of you are ready to shine, and learn how healthy boundaries can support your choice, agency, and self-expression.
As we close the circle, we’ll celebrate your insights and share reflections on what this journey has opened within you. You’ll leave with an integration roadmap to help you make sense of your experience and carry it forward with more clarity, trust, and intention.
In this personal integration session, we’ll reflect on what has shifted for you and map out your next steps with clarity and intention. Together, we’ll create a plan that helps you stay connected to your vision and turn insight into meaningful, aligned action.
CARE FOR YOUR ADOPTEE WELLBEING (Mind~Body~Soul)
CONNECT WITH YOUR INNER WORLD
CREATE A LIBERATED LIFE ON YOUR TERMS
What Katie found most helpful
“It’s always been hard for me to open up and feel vulnerable in front of other people, but Sun Mee created an environment that felt safe and non-judgmental. I could express myself without feeling judged or rejected.
The structure and step-by-step progress of this program have given me a range of tools and a framework I can now integrate into my daily life. It helps me process many of my emotions and struggles related to adoption.
I felt so safe in our group and our meaningful discussions were so empowering, knowing that I’m not alone.”
❤︎ What's included?
Here's what you'll receive in this journey-
8x WEEKLY GROUP SESSIONS à 90min (virtual)
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8x VIDEO MODULES to learn on your own time (life time access)
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Weekly GUIDED PRACTICES to deepen somatic healing
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24/7 Weekday support via our GROUP CHAT
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Personal INTEGRATION WORKBOOK for each week
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Access to the international NUMARU COMMUNITY Membership
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Optional: 2x Private Integration Sessions à 80min
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BONUS 1: Library of FREE resources with practical tools
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BONUS 2: Mini-Course —Liberated Boundaries for BIPOC Adoptees
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BONUS 3: Free Access to All Community Workshops During That Time
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What Jodi wants to tell fellow adoptees who are hesitant to take this step!
ROSLIN, adopted from Mexico
“Sun Mee’s course is life-changing. The somatic practices and learning to move through my emotions without staying stuck were the missing pieces in all the healing work I had done already. I feel like a new person; I have so much more clarity about who I am and where I’m going in life.”
"I always get a boost of energy after your sessions, I feel empowered and inspired for my projects. ❤︎ Sun Mee's tailor made sessions are nurturing and receiving support from a fellow transracial adoptee is incredible and life-changing."
"The care and dedication that goes into creating the space of healing is phenomenal."
“Sun Mee has made a huge impact on my life.
She introduced me to various somatic modalities that have been crucial to releasing trauma and understanding the mind-body connection. A positive shift has taken place within myself. Liberating, indeed!”
Senior Poeple & Culture manager
"The exchange with you was enormously enriching and I felt safe and seen. With your empathetic nature you created a safe framework in which I was able to to learn more about myself. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the wonderful, enriching and inspiring space, dear Sun Mee. "
"Sun Mee's care and the amount of attention she gives to the program and to us as individuals is unique and very authentic. The whole pace of the program is very gentle and build with compassion, but it is planned out in a way that I learned everything I needed."
ANNI, adopted from Korea
"I would definetly recommend working with Sun Mee.
I have tried out a lot of healing tools and techniques, but I haven't come someone liek Sun Mee with such level of authenticity and care that she brings into this work."
⁀➷ Life changing results after working together
★★★★★ Rated 5 out of 5
♥︎ Sarah left people pleasing behind and landed a new, exciting job aligned with her personal AND work values.
♥︎ Kim finally stepped out of a co-dependent relationship. Today, she knows how to set healthy boundaries, and that she deserves someone who truly cares and loves her.
♥︎ Jodi feels a deep sense of rootedness within herself AND with the people and new country she moved to. She forms new healthy friendships, confidently expresses her needs, and even teaches the tools she learned to her 7-year-old son 😉
♥︎ Ana uncovered a lot of compassion for herself and reconnected with her adoptive parents. Together, we prepared her to have vulnerable conversations with them from a place of compassion instead of blame.
♥︎ Roslin isn’t afraid of her feelings any more. She unlocked a deep sense of inner trust and expresses her truth in her performance art.
♥︎ Juhi overcame the fear of going back to her birth country and felt calm and curious to travel there.
♥︎ Lian moved through adoptee grief with care and a clear roadmap instead of overwhelm.
These are just a few heartwarming results…
⁀➷ Imagine what’s possible for you too!
★★★★★ Rated 5 out of 5
FAQs
This journey is for you if you’re a transracial/BIPOC adoptee who is ready to:
- move from people-pleasing, playing small, and pushing through → into self-trust and authentic expression
- feel a deeper sense of inner belonging, wholeness, and emotional safety within yourself
- relate to your emotions with radical softness instead of pressure or avoidance
- feel more grounded, regulated, and present in your daily life
- express your needs and boundaries with more clarity and ease—without guilt
- trust your body as a guide, rather than override it
- experience connection where you can be fully yourself—without performing or over-explaining
Fellow transcultural, international, BIPOC adoptee sisters from Europe and the US.
I will interview all interested participants to ensure the right energies come together. It’s important to me that everyone feels safe and seen, and that we co-create a safe container of care!
This has always worked out well in the past, and many adoptees have become friends and are still in touch after the NUMARU group program.
Yes. Liberate is for adoptees who have already done some healing work and are ready for a deeper, more embodied approach.
No. You do not need to feel perfectly ready — but curiosity, openness, and willingness to grow are important.
Yes — especially if you feel talk therapy has helped, but reached a limit and you are longing for a more holistic and embodied next step.
Yes. You do not need prior somatic experience to join. Liberate is open to adoptees who are curious, willing to learn, and ready to explore a more embodied approach to healing.
Not necessarily. You can feel some fear or hesitation — what matters most is your openness to being in community.
Our spring cohort starts May 16.
You have the option to join the Saturday OR weekday cohort, we will define a weekday that works for everyone.
Sessions will last ca. 90min and be held on Zoom.
Sessions will only be recorded if someone can’t make it to a live call.
Live is encouraged, as the group journey is built around shared presence and connection. Recordings are only provided if someone cannot attend a live call.
If live participation is not possible for you, you can also choose the self-study course only.
This is a premium, small-group experience designed to offer deep, trauma-sensitive support in an intimate setting. Flexible payment plans are available, starting at €275/month. I offer one supported spot for someone who feels a strong alignment but needs financial flexibility—you’re welcome to book a Courage Call to explore this together.
This offer gives you access to the NUMARU HEART SPACE APP, adoptee resources, and special events.
Join our international community of like-minded BIPoC/transracial adoptees in an add-free and safe platform and app. Read more here.
Integration is an integral part of the healing journey. The weekly Integration Workbooks allow you to make sense of your insights from the session.
Previous clients/adoptees loved this integration workbook, which has helped them integrate all insights and create lasting change.
This space may NOT be the right fit if you:
- are looking for quick fixes or surface-level tools without deeper exploration
- prefer purely cognitive approaches without engaging the feeling body
- are not open to reflecting on your emotional patterns and experiences
- don’t currently have the capacity to commit to 8 weekly sessions and gentle integration
Through the application and readiness call, I look at openness, capacity, group fit by my guiding community values of trust, honesty, empathy, and commitment.
Please email me and I’m happy to clarify any other questions: sunmee@numaru.space or message me via Telegram or Whatsapp +49 15739194046
▶︎ YOUR NEXT STEP:
Book a call with me and see if this is the right next step in your healing journey. I’ll answer any questions you have.
Warmly, Sun Mee
▶︎ DO YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS?
About Sun Mee
Sun Mee is a Korean-German adoptee, certified trauma-sensitive Coach, and Founder of NUMARU— An international community and emotional support platform for transracial/BIPOC adoptees. She was adopted at 3.5 yrs and raised in South Germany. NUMARU results from her journey of transforming her adoptee’s pain into purpose with a mission to create safe spaces and to offer a trauma-sensitive and open-hearted pathway to healing. She works internationally with individuals, groups, NGOs, and cultural organizations and has helped hundreds of adoptees to process their emotions, reclaim their sense of self, and confidently belong. Her story has been featured in international media outlets in the US, UK, Australia, and Germany. She is based in Berlin with her husband and values an eco-conscious and mindful lifestyle, nature, creativity, intuitive cooking, gardening, and DIY crafts.
“Sun Mee has made a huge impact on my life.
I loved her careful & thoughtful approach to our 1:1 sessions. She introduced me to various somatic modalities that have been crucial to releasing trauma and understanding the mind-body connection. A positive shift has taken place within myself. It’s been transformative and liberating indeed.”
"I haven’t seen any holistic approach or program like this and I didn’t know before that I actually needed that.
Coming out of it I feel much more positive and hopeful. I have learned tools and been able to allow myself to prioritise my self care, and find compassion and love for myself."
"The care and dedication that goes into creating the space of healing is phenomenal.
"I always get a boost of energy after the sessions, I feel empwered and inspired for my projects ❤︎ Sun Mee's tailor made private sessions are nurturing and receiving support from a fellow transracial adoptee is incredible and life-changing."
“Sun Mee is very skilled at bringing the group together in a short time and creating a safe space to share. Her style is one that allows people to share as much as they feel comfortable and understanding that everyone is at different points in their respective journeys. Keep up the fantastic work! "
"Sun Mee does a great job creating a safe space for adoptees and constructs meaningful conversations that help us in our jourenys. Thank you for the space. 💙
"Spaces like this are still new to me, so to be able to exist together and focus on turning inward, with the guidance from Sun Mee, felt revelatory. I was able to connect with my soul and spirit in a way that I'm not sure I ever have before, and it allowed me to see a part of myself that transcends the physical body and identity labels. I'm so glad I worked with Sun Mee, because I truly feel that this is a whole other element to my journey that I had not unlocked yet."
“The whole time I felt like I was in a safe space. You did so great! It was an important message for me that I can truly belong to myself. "
"This session with Sun Mee was so helpful in allowing myself to take some time and space to be with myself. I don't often make intentional time for somatics and thinking about my own wellbeing, so this was an impactful space to be able to do some of that. Sun Mee's gentle, calming, and holistic presence helps to create a welcoming and warm environment to connect with myself."
"Sun Mee is warm, kind, and knowledgeable. She is able to share information, tools, and resources in a variety of ways so folks can take what works for them. Her gentleness and empathy creates a special space for adoptee healing."
"Sun Mee's care and the amount of attention she gives to the program and to us as individuals is unique and very authentic.You actually pay attention to my needs and what I’m searching for in working together. The whole pace of the program is very gentle and build with compassion. There is no rush but it is planned out in a way that I learned everything I needed."
"SunMee offers a safe space led with compassion, comfort & connection. There is time to share, to ground & to reflect. It is so healing to share this space with other TRA’s. I walk away feeling a felt sense of connection to myself & to my community. Which is such a gift!"